Self-Esteem and Insecurities

The Shame of Anxiety, and How Anxiety Therapy Can Help

By Inside Psychotherapy  Anxiety Becomes an Issue When the Feeling Never Goes Away We all feel anxious from time to time, especially with everything that’s gone on in the past few years. However, if you have an anxiety disorder, that feeling just never seems to go away.  You may have recurring intrusive thoughts or concerns. […]

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What Is Your Therapist Listening For?

Advice is cheap. Advice puts the onus on the listener and not the speaker. Advice is often a quick fix—a mere Band-Aid on a wound that needs more persistent care. I can usually detect someone’s frustration when, as their therapist, I pointedly do not offer advice. One of the skills therapists learn early in their

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What Story Are You Telling Yourself?

We all have a victim story. Blame can be laid upon not only strangers, but frequently upon parents, partners, friends, teachers, coworkers, neighbors, and even the government for whatever situation brings discomfort.
As a therapist, many of the people I sit with have a story to tell. Often that story boils down to being victimized in some way.

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3 Ways to Start Becoming Your Own Biggest Fan

I have two toddler-aged kids. They regularly take my breath away with their often-unexpected highs and lows. But one thing I have noticed remains constant for both: They love themselves! My younger son smiles at himself in the mirror, kisses his own lips, and plays with his reflection. My daughter, a little older, admires whatever she is

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